I have always felt that time was on my side. But lately I have been feeling more urgency. Urgency to do the things I always wanted to do in my life.
In particular I am feeling that I am getting older and it’s time to find a good woman to be my life partner and to travel the world with her before settling down.
My current plan is to get a remote job as a developer and then move to Philippines to do an MBA. I’ve been there before and dating was easier there. And they are more religious over there which is appealing.
You hear some horror stories about men going overseas to find a wife, bringing her back and then getting used and cheated on.
Theres really no escaping it. You have to be a woman’s gold medal – their first choice. Not their backup plan or last resort.
How do you become the highest sexual-market-value version of yourself? It’s no secret… have a good job and be in good shape.
The hard part isn’t identifying what’s attractive. For me the hard part is reconciling that I don’t actually care that much about being the things women find attractive.
But I do care about getting a woman that I find genuinely attractive and respect as a person. And I do care about her finding me attractive and respecting me as a person. Mutual attraction and respect.
But now I feel like I am running out of time…
- To choose my career (or build a business)
- To get in good wellness habits
- To start online dating or pickup
It feels a little bit like having a window of time where I am in my prime. And I feel like I am wasting that opportunity.